Why Your Accent Matters to Me: Personally and Professionally

I have a story about my accent: do you?

As a first-generation Moldavian, American, I spoke Moldavian; until I was adopted at the age of 4.5 years old. After arriving in America, my adoptive parents were encouraged to only speak English to me. This was in order to fully assimilate me into the American culture. This approach is ironic considering the vast tapestry of cultures and countries that are represented within the United States.

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Online Speech Therapist Tatiana defining speech terms like Aphasia and Glottal Fry.
Tatiana Dunnett (CCC-SLP)
Your Speech Pathologist

A Florida-licensed, ASHA-certified speech-language pathologist offering telehealth speech therapy for adults across Florida — voice therapy, accent modification, stuttering, and aphasia support. Learn more about me.

Improving my English, but losing my language and my accent

Over the 6-12 months following my arrival to the United States, I gained more knowledge of my second language, English, and lost any links to my native tongue, Moldavian, until I was eventually fully fluent in English.

When I started Kindergarten the following year, my teacher was shocked to learn that just 12 months prior, I’d not spoken a word of English. Something to be proud of, sure; but also, kind of sad.

While I understand the reasoning behind full assimilation, I still grieve the loss of my native tongue, which was a big part of my heritage and identity.

Everyone has an accent: isn’t that cool?

Accents tell a story! Accents are unique and beautiful, and they represent nations and cultures from all over the world.

Even as a native-born citizen of the United States, you have an accent, as even different regions within a singular country, including the U.S., boast many different ways of saying the same words.

In America, there are various Southern accents, a Philadelphia accent, a New Jersey accent (depending on which part of New Jersey), a Boston accent, a New York accent (depending on which part of New York), and the list goes on and on. Each of these accents are deeply rooted in the cultural underpinnings that make these areas so rich and vibrant.

Should you try to change your accent?

Changing your accent (called “accent modification”) is something that requires careful consideration. Each individual must think about their communication goals in their personal and professional life alike. It is deeply personal, and it is ultimately your choice.

Accent modification is defined as an elective service sought by individuals who want to change or modify their speech. You may have also heard the terms “accent reduction” or “accent neutralization” used as well. 

As a Speech-Language Pathologist and one who has personally experienced learning a second language, even at a young age, I take the approach to Accent Modification very seriously.

Accent Modification is a Personal Choice

I understand and respect that learning and speaking various languages can present various issues of clarity and frustrations with communication.

I want you to know that my belief regarding this service is that it is only to help improve your overall communication clarity and success within various environments, but it is NOT an attempt to fully erase that link to your culture and identity. Be assured that my approach is customized to your specific need and your overall goals for seeking Accent Modification Speech and Language Services.

If you’d like to learn more about how I can help you, you can find out here.

If you want to discuss this deeper, I am delighted to set up a consultation with you! Learn more about speech therapy services that I offer, and you can also see what I offer to organizations as well. Thank you for reading and if you enjoyed this, please share it with a friend.

This is NOT medical advice. If you are experiencing chronic vocal dysfunction or pain, please seek the advice and treatment of a physician.

Your accent is part of your story. Let’s make sure it never gets in the way.

If you’re looking to improve your clarity and communication confidence — without losing the identity behind your voice — I’d love to talk. I work with adults across Florida via secure telehealth, on your schedule.

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